I just read your story and feel what your going through.
At one time I too felt of giving up but my wife kicked my ass to keep going. Never give up! As a military man myself I know what your going through on the finances. I think you should tell your story to a talk show like Montel Williams maybe he’ll be able to help you, but please never give up your rights as a father to your son.
I the end your son will know the truth and will love you for fighting him. Keep me informed on what happens.